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Finding the Good in GOODBYE

Ah, my favorite topic. The art of letting go. You know, it’s just that – an art form. I’ve perfected the art form by literally going through **it with people who said they loved me/family/friends/so-called friends over and over and over and over again. It…


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Who Do You See?

A person walks onto the train or passes you in the street. Are you quick to judge them on what you see? Is your judgement based on what s/he looks like? What s/he is wearing? What s/he is carrying in their hands? The sad thing is…


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“You can’t have a better tomorrow if you’re thinking about yesterday” ~ Charles Kettering

Wonderfully put! Here’s the thing..staying in the present is KEY to happiness. A lot of people shake their heads at me or look at me strange when I walk down the street sometimes. It’s not that I am talking to myself its more that I may…


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The Marriage Cult…

There’s enormous cultural as well as familial pressure to get married. Shit, we see it everyday….Bridezillas, Platinum Weddings, Bachelorette, Loose to Wed, My Fair Wedding. Even worse, the Hollywood movies where couples drive off into the sunset to reality shows where women line up like…


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More faith in me than a beach has sand

Everyone dreams of their perfect match. The One. The Lid to their pot. Their other half. The ying to their yang. The milk to their cheerios. Count me in that bunch. For a long time (ok, not so long) I was under the impression that…


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Flipping the script on the Love Algorithm

Valentine’s Day is one of those holidays that provokes a visceral reaction. Like Hillary Clinton – people either love her or hate her. Same goes with Valentine’s Day. Society has done a dozy of a job of brainwashing us into getting all wrapped up and…


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G = F+J

Today was one of those days when the world seems to be goin’ just plum crazy. First, I was awaken by a disturbing telephone call at the crack of ass, then I immediately had to jump into action for work, take the dog to the…


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A DIVA is NOT the female version of a HUSTLER

Ok, love Beyonce…she knows how to shake a tail feather and put a point on fashion for girls with hips and booty…but on this one I have to disagree with “Sasha Fierce.” Not in  a million years would I ever want to be likened to…


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The future you see is the future you get….

Over the past several months, I have been writing about happiness and my circuitous route to finding it. If there is only one thing you select to take away from this blog let it be this — your attitude and view of yourself will dictate…


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To forgive is to set the prisoner free and then discover the prisoner was you

The day I honestly forgave my ex-husband was the day I stopped being a Mrs. Rottencrotch. I realized that by continuing to stay mad and feeling disappointed did not do a damn thing to him. He was still going to be fuckin’ the woman I…


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