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Compassion and lack thereof

Here I am trekking up the East-side of Harlem River drive in my hybrid ZipCar..coming back from a day of shopping along the North Shore of Long Island.  I am bopping along singing way off key to Katy Perry’s Firework when I glance to the…


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Disappointment

Phew…a word that I have an intimate relationship with. For a very long time I was walking around with a dust cloud over my head of whoa. A mother who fundamentally has no idea what it means to be non-judgemental, loving, emotionally supportive or nurturing.…


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Knowing Your Must Haves and Non-Negotiables

When I was married, I learned a lot about myself and a hellavu lot about my ex-husband. What I learned is that what I wanted from a partner/husband was a non-negotiable. Unfortunately, but fortunately I found that out AFTER I married the wrong man. Not…


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There is no way to happiness. Happiness is the WAY

I am not sure when it “hit” me that this is my only life and I am wasting it away waiting for stuff/events/situations that may never happen. Not sure if it was when I cried so hard that I felt I was drowning in tears…


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The Marriage Cult…

There’s enormous cultural as well as familial pressure to get married. Shit, we see it everyday….Bridezillas, Platinum Weddings, Bachelorette, Loose to Wed, My Fair Wedding. Even worse, the Hollywood movies where couples drive off into the sunset to reality shows where women line up like…


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More faith in me than a beach has sand

Everyone dreams of their perfect match. The One. The Lid to their pot. Their other half. The ying to their yang. The milk to their cheerios. Count me in that bunch. For a long time (ok, not so long) I was under the impression that…


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Flipping the script on the Love Algorithm

Valentine’s Day is one of those holidays that provokes a visceral reaction. Like Hillary Clinton – people either love her or hate her. Same goes with Valentine’s Day. Society has done a dozy of a job of brainwashing us into getting all wrapped up and…


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G = F+J

Today was one of those days when the world seems to be goin’ just plum crazy. First, I was awaken by a disturbing telephone call at the crack of ass, then I immediately had to jump into action for work, take the dog to the…


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A DIVA is NOT the female version of a HUSTLER

Ok, love Beyonce…she knows how to shake a tail feather and put a point on fashion for girls with hips and booty…but on this one I have to disagree with “Sasha Fierce.” Not in  a million years would I ever want to be likened to…


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The future you see is the future you get….

Over the past several months, I have been writing about happiness and my circuitous route to finding it. If there is only one thing you select to take away from this blog let it be this — your attitude and view of yourself will dictate…


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