For me the definition of loving someone and sharing a life with them is not about them becoming a savior or hero that fixes all wrongs. For me its all about knowing that everything that comes my way doesn’t have to be solved by that special person in my life but the comfort of knowing that I won’t go through it alone is key. No matter how bad it gets WE are in it together. Now that’s a relationship…that’s love. I’ve lived most of my life where I had to carry the world on my shoulders. The worthy man to be in my life as a true partner is someone who takes the time to see the indentations left by carrying the burden and offers to share the load.
I am not looking for Superman…just a man who is super in my eyes.