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I loved Chance. And I can say without hesitation he loved me unconditionally. I loved him the way I loved no other being. When he passed I was beyond distraught, I was inconsolable. I cried like I never cried before in my life. The tears…

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For the last 8 years, Halloween has been my most favorite holiday. Chance and I use to dress up in our costumes and go trick or treating on the Upper Westside, turning heads, posing for pictures all the while having a great time. So, this…

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Well, it’s been awhile since I’ve written a post and the reason for this is because Chance, my beloved Bernese Mountain Dog, died suddenly in August and I have been having a really hard time dealing with his passing. It’s hard for me to “go…

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Others Can’t Love You On Your Behalf

Your worth and value will not be found in other people. That needs to come from yourself. When you stop looking for fulfillment in other people the shift will happen. People can only love you so much and they can not and will not love…

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Things I Want Most…Pssst They Are Not “Things”

What is it that we want most? I think everyone has their own punch list of the things they want. Here’s mine: To be happy. To be full of courage and hope. Build friendships that are a treasure. Find a love that is beautiful. Find…

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Life: Don’t Measure Just Live

There was a time in my life when I looked in the mirror and wanted to change everything. I was looking for a sense of perfection of which I now know does not exist. This “perfect” life that I was wishing for was a result of…

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Get To Know Your Inner Self

Life is all about how you respond to it. We can either respond to life as victims or as the victor. I choose to be the victor because to be honest its more powerful. But, being the victor takes work. It means you need to…

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Who Are You Loving?

Is there truly a soulmate? Not sure, maybe. What I do believe in is being with someone who loves you well. Someone who doesn’t belittle you, someone who knows what you are capable of and celebrates that. Not someone who is intimidated by your strength. If…

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Tempering Your Expectations of Others

Disappointment. Ugh. Something that I use to feel….a lot. I had to ask myself this question many, many times “why am I disappointed so much?” The answer wasn’t in the people that disappointed me. The answer was in how I had expectations of people. It was…

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When people do not communicate or connect with us in the way that we need, it’s easy for us to internalize that as a reflection of our worth. I have a bad habit of doing that too. But then I remember, the way other people…

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